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What if I Fail?

Hey guys, I hope you all are doing fine this post is for everyone out there who are trying to become a better version of themselves. A little dose of motivation that we all need frequently is here for you.  The topic that I've chosen for today is a question "What if I fail?" 


So like every human being, this question might strike your mind often, and Baamm!! You are sleep deprived. Every little effort you put in something the first question that strike is “What if, this is not for me?", “Or what if I’m not meant for this?”, “ What if I fail? “

I’m not here to overload you with ample of motivational thoughts they are already all over the internet. But what I want to convey is that all this is perfectly normal. Yes you can think about the outcomes and their possibilities.
But the question may arise is it really that important? Should it affect your actions? Is it necessary that you think about it all the time? Do you want this question to take away the confidence you have?

Obviously, the answer to all the above question is no. No, you are not going to let this question affect your answer. But all you need is to put another question in frame and that question is “What if I succeed?” And now just listen to your heart. Do you feel it throbbing with happiness? Does it make you smile? If the answer is yes, then how come you are letting any other question spoil your actions.

There are millions of examples of trying, failing, trying, failing, trying and finally achieving. But what would you prefer when you decide to narrate a story to the younger generation? A story you read somewhere and have no faith in being true or a story experienced by you at every point of your life? I believe we all want the later one, the people narrating their stories at TEDx are one of us, they actually went through all, the question of failure stumbled upon their mind but they did focus more on the question of success.

So all my dear readers it’s time to do what you really want to, achieve the heights and when your mind is stuck thinking about the failure of actions just breathe and think what if I succeed?

All love
Tanya! 

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